Massage Therapist Millie R. Hynes shares her perspective on visiting the Hearth for the first time and then becoming a regular volunteer.
There was quite a crowd, maybe twelve ladies knitting or crocheting, sitting around in a circle of chairs. They laughed often and a lively conversation seemed to include and engage everyone. In another area, five women sat reading books or magazines. In the kitchen area, people seemed busy working over the stove but not too busy to be talking to each other. This was Women’s Hearth.
My friend, a lady in her late forties, was relocating in Spokane. Just new out of an alcohol treatment center, she felt vulnerable and alone. I was hoping this was the place she could receive support. One of the staff gave us a tour showing us the computer room, chapel, group activity room, laundry room, and shower area. Everywhere hummed with activity. One room we were unable to see because a twelve step program was in session. In the later part of the tour, we saw the offices of the staff members. All the staff seemed to be involved with all the activities and not in the offices. Everything was very clean and tidy. Art work and photography, done by the women is displayed on the walls and most is surprisingly very good.
Our tour guide showed us a monthly calendar. Every day was filled. Some of it surprised me. A reflexologist and a beautician volunteer there, piano lessons and knitting lessons are given, classes in being a responsible renter and seeking recovery from physical abuse. A list displayed on a wall included four core values: Human Dignity, Community, Growth and Wholeness, and Justice. I instantly wanted to be a part of what was going on here. I inquired about a massage therapist as a volunteer and the next thing I knew, I was scheduled to come in weekly for 1-½ to 2 hours.
I look forward to my time there. People are very appreciative for the chair massage that lasts just ten to fifteen minutes. Old injuries apparent in my palpation usually occurred because of an abusive boyfriend or husband. Some have been in serious car accidents. Massage is like a mind vacation, allowing women a freeing experience. The massage creates a space just to release into mind, body and spirit. The massage doesn’t last long, but people leave the room feeling lighter and energized. And when I leave The Hearth, I feel energized also.
People come from all walks of life. I am reminded of my growing up days on a farm. My Dad hired transient workers to help during harvest. The men that became a part of our family were often alcoholics. Mom and Dad welcomed them into our family. They played games or watched television with us in the evenings after dinner. All had interesting backgrounds, estranged from their families because of their addiction. My parents never focused on their past but strived to give them a sense of belonging and importance. Women’s Hearth does the same. At Women’s Hearth, I feel at home.
